Mental Health Minute

February 2008

 

http://www.frontrangepsychology.com


 

 

 

 

 

526 Briggs St.
Suite A

P.O. Box 1154

Erie, CO  80516

 

303-828-3080

 

www.frontrangepsycology.com

 

Check out our website for current and upcoming groups!

 

 

 

 

 


 
Women's Symposium


10 Steps to Health, Happiness, and Financial Stability

 

Thursday Feb. 21st

6:00-8:30pm

Erie Community Center

450 Powers St

Erie, CO  80516

 

Join Dr. Stephanie Smith, Jeannie Hulse (insurance specialist), Susie Germany (attorney), and Julie Gunkel (financial specialist) to learn about what all women need to know to enjoy financial and emotional health for a lifetime. 

 

This will be an interactive, educational, and FREE evening with appetizers and cocktails. Held in the new Erie Community Center, this will be the community's first event of it's kind.

 

While this event is free, seating is limited - so please RSVP.

303-828-4002.

 

See you there!



 


 

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

 

Domestic Violence is a violent confrontation between family or household members involving sexual assault, psychological abuse, controlling manipulation, physical harm, or threat of harm.  Abuse in a relationship is any act used to gain power and control over another person.  Violence at home occurs among people of all races, ages, socio-economic classes, sexual orientations, religious affiliations, occupations and educational backgrounds.  Here are some indications that you might be in an unhealthy relationship:

 

  1. Your partner is violent or threatening toward you or the children.
  2. You find yourself making excuses or minimizing your partner's behavior.
  3. You blame yourself for the behavior or your partner blames you. 
  4. You feel controlled by your partner.
  5. You feel helpless, trapped, and isolated.  You are sad and anxious.
  6. You fear being alone with your partner or you avoid going home.
  7. Your partner hides your keys, mail or important documents/objects from you.
  8. Your partner becomes easily jealous or restricts you from seeing your friends and family. 
  9. The episodes of violence are separated by periods in which your partner is sweet and apologetic to you, during which they make promises to be stop being abusive. 

 

If you think you are a victim of abuse, you are not alone, and there are many resources to assist you in getting help.  Everyone has a right to feel safe in a relationship.  


Boulder County Safehouse:

303-444-2424

 

A Woman's Place (Weld County):

970-356-4226

 

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Welcome to the February edition of FRPA's Mental Health Minute.  We have some interesting things coming up this month, so read on to see what we are up to!  Be sure to check out the article on Financial Stress - something we are hearing a lot about in the news these days.  Also in this month's newsletter - information about Domestic Violence.  If you or someone you know is involved in an abusive relationships, please use the resources listed to get help.

 

Best wishes for a healthy month,

Dr. Bridget Engel & Dr. Stephanie Smith

 

 

 

Got HBO? 

HBO premiered a new series on January 28th called In Treatment, a show about a psychologist and his clients.  The show is being billed as groundbreaking and provocative - and certainly worth checking out.

 

Dr. Smith (along with several other psychologists across the country) was asked by the American Psychological Association to watch the program and provide feedback about it to the LA Times in preparation for a story they are writing  in the next few weeks.

 

We have some ideas about the show and how well it portrays the therapy process, but would love to hear your thoughts as well.  Email Dr. Smith with your ideas! - drsmith@frontrangepsychology.com

 

And check out the schedule below to see when In Treatment airs next:

 http://www.hbo.com/apps/schedule/ScheduleServlet?ACTION_DETAIL=DETAIL&FOCUS_ID=629606

 

                            

Managing Your Stress in

 Tough Economic Times 

As talk of falling housing prices, rising consumer debt and declining retail sales bring up worries about the nation's economic health, more Americans feel additional stress and anxiety about their financial future.

Money is often on the minds of most Americans. In fact, money and work are two of the top sources of stress for almost 75 percent of Americans, according to the American Psychological Association's 2007 Stress in America survey. Add to the mix headlines declaring a looming economic recession, and many begin to fear how they can handle any further financial crunch.

But, like most of our everyday stress, this extra tension can be managed. Psychologists first recommend taking pause and not panicking. While there are some unknown effects in every economic downturn, our nation has experienced recessions before. There are also healthy strategies available for managing stress during tough economic times.

The American Psychological Association offers these tips to help deal with your stress about money and the economy:

·         Pause but don't panic. There are many negative stories in newspapers and on television about the state of the economy. Pay attention to what's happening around you, but refrain from getting caught up in doom-and-gloom hype, which can lead to high levels of anxiety and bad decision making. Avoid the tendency to overreact or to become passive. Remain calm and stay focused.

·         Identify your financial stressors and make a plan. Take stock of your particular financial situation and what causes you stress. Write down specific ways you and your family can reduce expenses or manage your finances more efficiently. Then commit to a specific plan and review it regularly. Although this can be anxiety-provoking in the short term, putting things down on paper and committing to a plan can reduce stress. If you are having trouble paying bills or staying on top of debt, reach out for help by calling your bank, utilities or credit card company.

·         Recognize how you deal with stress related to money. In tough economic times some people are more likely to relieve stress by turning to unhealthy activities like smoking, drinking, gambling or emotional eating. The strain can also lead to more conflict and arguments between partners. Be alert to these behaviors-if they are causing you trouble, consider seeking help from a psychologist or community mental health clinic before the problem gets worse.

 

·         Turn these challenging times into opportunities for real growth and change. Times like this, while difficult, can offer opportunities to take stock of your current situation and make needed changes. Think of ways that these economic challenges can motivate you to find healthier ways to deal with stress. Try taking a walk-it's an inexpensive way to get good exercise.  Having dinner at home with your family may not only save you money, but help bring you closer together. Consider learning a new skill. Take a course through your employer or look into low-cost resources in your community that can lead to a better job. The key is to use this time to think outside the box and try new ways of managing your life.

·         Ask for professional support. Credit counseling services and financial planners are available to help you take control over your money situation. If you continue to be overwhelmed by the stress, you may want to talk with a psychologist who can help you address the emotions behind your financial worries, manage stress, and change unhealthy behaviors.

 

© 2008 American Psychological Association